STYLE DIARY: MONDAY OF ADVENT 4



Sun in bare forsythia canes, on a much colder morning, now that all the rain has blown through. 




Our Lady of the waiting winter garden. 

At this writing, I am finished with all but one of my major gift projects, which feels miraculous. I still need to gather a few more stocking stuffers –– fortunately I've assigned everyone to bring one small stocking stuffer for everyone else, so that task isn't all mine, but I do need to have some more things to put in myself. 

Still planning menus, too. Typically we do Christmas Eve dinner, Christmas breakfast, and Christmas dinner in the evening, though I also have to feed meals to an increasing number of people starting tomorrow. Here's my plan for the major meals: 

Christmas Eve: 

*breakfast: ad lib (I should probably get some cereal, which we don't eat but other people do)

*lunch: soup and sandwiches

*pre-dinner: cheese board, baked brie, dates, &c. 

*dinner: baked salmon, cheese ravioli, peas, spiced pears, cookies

*maybe some wine or champagne for after Midnight Mass

Christmas Day: 

breakfast: sausage and egg casserole, cherry cobbler, gingerbread breakfast cookies OR cinnamon rolls, coffee, orange juice

during the day: charcuterie board (cheeses, baked brie, dates & other dried fruit, salami and other cured meats)

dinner: ham, baked apples with cranberries, roasted brussels sprouts with bacon, roasted carrots, oyster pie, cherry & apple pies, cookies

I still need to nail down dinners for the 23rd, when we will have potentially all nine people here, and for Boxing Day, when again . . . we might have nine, we might have seven . . . people's plans are fluid here. Fortunately after Christmas we should have ham leftovers (seriously thinking about getting a second ham, because it's relatively inexpensive, everyone likes it, and it feeds expanding or contracting numbers of people with ease). And I need to be sure we have easy things to grab for breakfasts and lunches, which are the meals I don't routinely plan and tend to forget about until people are looking at me going, "What are we going to eat now?" I might go ahead and make a double or triple batch of chili for dinner tonight, actually, just to have it on hand later in the week. 

Wearing today: 




Wet hair, with a repeat of yesterday's Poshmarked Pact grape cotton sheath dress worn as a jumper over a Patagonia base-layer merino shirt. I'd gotten this shirt on Poshmark, thinking to give it as a gift (giving a lot of Poshmarked merino to the men in my orbit this Christmas), but while it's in good used condition, it's a little more obviously used than some of the other items I've ordered, with a little snagging and pilling, so I decided to keep it for myself. I'd been wanting a base-layer merino shirt, and I know I'll wear this navy a lot. It is definitely meant to be a base layer, so is thinner than your average tee/pullover, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that it's less see-through than I had expected. I could actually wear it on its own. I like the navy with the grape dress, and the merino, fine-gauge as it is, provides a lot of warmth underneath on a day when that's very welcome. 




Not the world's most flattering angle here, but it's easier to see my gray merino Snag tights and Birks in this shot. So basically I have heavy organic cotton over an entire base layer of merino, top and bottom. 




I do love this shade of purple with blue. Again, I hadn't really planned to keep this shirt, but I think I'm going to be glad I did. I'm also glad I'd ordered a bunch of items, in order to have my bases covered and have backup, in case something really turned out not to be in gift condition. Mostly I've been very lucky in these purchases. I'm giving my husband a new Wool&Prince button-down shirt, but also a green Poshmarked Smartwool tee which looks very nice. My son-in-law is getting a v-necked Icebreaker tee in a lovely shade of green. My older son is getting a heavier wool-cotton-blend long-sleeved tee that's supposedly a base layer, but is thick enough to wear on its own. My younger son is getting LARP stuff, which is what he really wants –– I might at some point just send him a merino tee, but of them all, he's least likely to wear a wool tee, I think. And the LARP stuff is pricey, so that's his one big gift. 

Anyway, I hadn't planned to buy anything for myself, but lucky me. As we're heading into the last days of 2021, I am mindful of my resolution to make 2022 a no-buy year. While I'm not exactly scrambling to buy a bunch of stuff –– in fact, I've been culling my closet pretty hard lately –– I am certainly thinking, in these waning moments of the year, of what I might honestly need to make a no-buy year sustainable and successful. 

But there'll be time to think about that after Christmas. I have contemplated possibly buying one more Wool& dress as a Christmas gift to myself (sometime during the Twelve Days), and letting go more of my non-natural-fiber thrifted dresses . . . we shall see. For now, I really want to concentrate on gift-giving and hospitality, which is the serious work of this last week in Advent.